Actually I think that you can select warnings & yet still leave the "Author Chooses Not to Warn" thing ticked as well--I had that by mistake, but it is now corrected... like Rhi, I don't want people to interpret that as "I think warnings are for delicate flowers, so fuck you if you want them." (& plus obviously if I selected a warning I was choosing to use them... ?)

Someone over here asked me why I don't "celebrate" July 4th (there are a few other US Americans at work & they were all excited about bonding by doing something for the holiday--luckily I went to London & thus avoided having to bow out). And... how to say that to coworkers that you don't want to tell a micron more about your life than you don't have to? I just said, eh, it's a nice day for a picnic, I like fireworks, but I don't feel particularly excited about it. (& also, if I was that patriotic, would I even be here???)